I have deep feelings for this girl, A. we’ve been friends for almost 2 years and i’ve felt this way since i laid eyes on her. im not in love or infatuated(that died down 4 or 5 months ago), but i really like her and i want her to like me the same way back. she has told me her turn ons are arms and abs. i think that means she likes guys with big, defined arm muscle and defined abs. now comes the (1 of 2)problem: arms, i have big arms(i play football), and they are kind of defined. abs, i have strong abs, but they are covered with 1″ to 3″ of fat (product of 14 years being raised by a single mom whos a teacher; so not exactly the greatest nutrition there, always being broke and all). ive been busting my azs trying to get rid of it, and ive made some headway, but not enough. and by no means am i a small guy. im 6′ 195lbs, and its mostly muscle. how can i improve my looks to be the optimum man for her, and feel more confident?
Problem numero dos: its strange, when we talk on AIM or w/e, i can say whatever i please with confidence, but when im around her, i say stupid things and try too hard to be funny. its frustrating. what can i do to make myself more comfortable with her and make conversation easier? this sucks knowing i can do better but not being able to get it out. And one more thing, what subtle(but noticable) hints should i say to let her know that i dig her?
lol and shes not shallow. her last bf was a little goofy looking. but i also dont wanna make things awkward
We ARE friends, and good ones, but ive wanted to be more. if she doesnt want that, then its cool. i have this everlasting fear of making things awkward with my female friends, so ive missed out on alot. i dont know… its like, id do anything for her(within reason). i just…am not able to say the words. oy, its pathetic
we constantly make eye contact, and i try to hold it. and my heart starts pounding, and i want to say something, something good, but instead i look away. WTF is wrong with me? ah, what the hell.
when she broke up with her last bf, i was there for her. and for a while i get the feeling she was mad digging me, but i think that that was just the rebound stage going on. at the same time, i also feel like i missed my chance. dammit
its hard to talk to her like ive known her forever, because theres this tension inside me that keeps saying,”alex, you dolt, dont screw it up”.i just kind of bite my tongue and make stained conversation
Please don’t advise me if you don’t have enough experience and information.
I am 22 years old 6.2 feet tall. and I weight around 180 pound. quite average weight for my height.
my goal is to make muscle and get bigger in volume (not getting fat).
I read a lot about these two products and asked a lot. most people say Cytrogainer is junk and waste of money. they recommend whey protein because its more reliable and more trusted.
I usually workout 3-4 times a week. however since im in school during tests I may reduce my workout time.
What do you recommend ? any other idea ?
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